A Review of Joe’s American Bar and Grill

Less than a mile from my hotel in Franklin, Massachusetts, I took note of a simple building with a blue and red neon sign calling out to me like a beacon in the night: Joe’s American Bar and Grill. The place seemed busy, as any good establishment is on a Friday night. The restaurant had its own parking lot which was ample, well lit and the outside landscaping was nicely groomed.

A staff member opened the door as we arrived. I expected to be standing in a mob of people working my way up to the hostess station but was pleasantly surprised that the waiting area had nine benches. The seating was uncomfortable but it kept a path to the early American antique colonial dresser being used as a hostess station free. There were three ladies working hard to get us seated. They were all business as they checked diner status and prepared menus and tables. I had spent 15 minutes looking at the nostalgic American pictures, flavored with many from the Boston area, when I was told that my booth was available.

The aroma in the dining area was overwhelming. I smelled a mixture of food that instantly made my mouth water and I was eager to examine the menu. I walked by a well rounded combination of families, couples, elderly, and young adults with various meals involving chicken, steak, sizzling grilled dishes, fish, soup, fries, vegetables, and a multitude of other items that were intriguing.

The only tables were by the front windows and were teaming with large groups of party goers. The remainder of the restaurant had booths with cloth napkins and fresh cut flowers. The booths were extremely roomy, but not very comfortable.

The interior décor was well done. The dark green paint, the dark stained wood, and the brick overlay gave it an American Colonial touch but the open floor plan, high ceilings and the large windows added a modern non-claustrophobic feel. There were American flags and eagle sculptures peppered throughout the restaurant and track lighting highlighted the antique looking pictures of historic buildings and past presidents.

I decided on an appetizer and at that moment, as if reading my mind, my waitress appeared and introduced herself. She was professional looking in her black pants and white button down shirt but there was no name tag. It wasn’t needed though because I never had to ask for her. She provided great service from beginning to end.

I was slightly disappointed that they did not have Shock Top, but I was amazed that they carried Kaliber for my dining companion. The bar was packed on this Friday evening so I expected our drinks to take a while but not at all. The beers and appetizer were out before I was done perusing the extensive menu. The nachos were delivered as ordered, without guacamole, and I was not disappointed. The kitchen staff started with chips that could have stood alone with flavor. The cheese and sour cream proportion was just right, although it was light on the pico de gallo and salsa. I’d like to note that the salsa was fabulous. It was flavorful and extremely spicy, but not hot.

We were brought half a loaf of fresh, soft, warm sour dough bread with butter. We took our time with the appetizer, enjoying the conversation and atmosphere, and as soon as the empty plate was whisked away our meals arrived. I never felt rushed, but I did feel catered to, as if the food server was in the back waiting to see when I was done. Our waitress, Kasey I later learned, came over to actually serve our meals. Although the whole belly clam special was tempting, I had ordered the prime rib special, only served on Friday and Saturday nights after 4 p.m. It was slightly overcooked from the very rare with a cool raw center that I ordered (perhaps the food server was waiting with my meal under the hot lights) but the taste, spices and au jour sauce more than made up for it. It was 12 ounces of quality beef bursting with flavor and the horseradish was not overpowering, but had plenty of bite. There was no salad served. The side dish was a cooked potato thrown on the plate. It wasn’t even cut open and the butter and sour cream was on the side.

The meal was amazing, and Kasey attentive. With the last bite she whisked our plates away and as we were winding down she produced a dessert menu and coffee options. Upon declining, she efficiently left our check. We were wished a good night by every staff member we passed on the way out and all in all it was an awesome dining experience.

I later learned that this restaurant is owned by the Back Bay Restaurant Group and is currently expanding out of Massachusetts. I hope it comes to my neck of the woods because it could quickly become one of my favorites.


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Workout with Millionaire – Free Outdoor Fitness Boot Camp for Women

Workout with Millionaire

Neighborhood: Kenwood, Hyde Park

Chicago, IL 60615

United States of America

If you’re in the Chicago area and sincerely want to get in shape; come out to Chicago’s Hyde Park area and participate in an outdoor fitness boot camp that’s designed to meet the needs of women. Did I mention that the first week is free? No obligations.

Looking to get fit? Toned? Remove body fat? Lose weight? Well, you’re in luck. Workout with Millionaire has introduced what they call a “No Excuse” outdoor fitness boot camp that’s designed to not only help women meet their fitness goals, but is also tailored to fit nicely into a busy work week – kids and all. The first week of boot camp is completely free [no matter when you start training]; workout for only 3 days a week; it’s located in the Hyde Park area – approx. 15 minutes away from the South Loop; workouts last from 5:30pm-6:30pm (after work hours) so that there’s no conflict with your business life; if you have kids, they can simply play at the park while you work out; heck, there’s even residential parking.

The Workout with Millionaire Outdoor Fitness Boot Camp is an intense physical conditioning program designed to target problem areas of women and features plyometric, high impact interval training [HIIT], strength training, cardiovascular exercises and more. Although this outdoor boot camp is intense, it’s “beginner friendly” and intensity is increased as time goes on. Get a great workout without hiring an expensive personal trainer, being stuck in a gym contract, or hoping around in your socks and undies in your living room. Come out to Kenwood Community Park, get fresh air, stay committed by working out with others who’ll help you stay accountable, and get in the best shape of your life.

Details:

  • · What: Outdoor Fitness Boot Camp from May 22nd – Aug. 25th 2012
  • · Where: Kenwood Community Park @ 49th Kenwood Ave.
  • · When: Tues, Thurs, and Sat from 5:30pm – 6:30pm
  • · Come dressed to workout [there are no changing rooms] and bring bottled water, a towel, yoga mat (not required), heart rate monitor (optional), and a positive attitude.

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Biography of Sarah Jessica Parker

Think of Sarah Jessica Parker, and the first image that comes to our mind is that of the bright pink Cosmopolitan cocktail; the same one she revolutionized in Sex and the City – flashy and cool, with a tangy dash of lime. Ever since she made her appearance on our TV screens as Carrie Bradshaw in SATC, most of us have remembered her for just being Carrie, completely disregarding the fact that she’s been in showbiz for nearly 35 years. Call it what you want to, but the now-iconic character that she played, created such a lasting impression on the audience that it is tough to separate the two.

On exploring her career graph, one just can’t help but notice the fact that Parker is an entertainer who is best described as old-fashioned; a performer in the true sense, someone who actually sings and dances. She does not carry that I-am-a-star aura everywhere she goes, and it is wonderful to see an actress at least seemingly comfortable in her own skin, skinny arms, disheveled hair and all. With all the emphasis on physical attributes in Hollywood, it is refreshing to see a star who in her own words “digs her flaws”.

Now, SJP is also a producer, an entrepreneur and a mother who does a fine balancing act. To all the women who expect an Alexander McQueen-clad princess in Manolos, retreat right here, because, here’s Sarah Jessica Parker, who’s so not Carrie.

The New Yorker from Cincinnati

SJP was born on March 25, 1965 in Nelsonville, Ohio. Her parents were Barbara Parker, a teacher, and Stephen Parker, a journalist. Her parents divorced when she was quite young, but she still affiliates with her father’s Jewish ethnicity. Her mother went on to wed Paul Forste, who became young Sarah’s father in the truest sense.

It wouldn’t be wrong to say that SJP had humble beginnings. Her family included seven siblings and her parents who brought her up in an intellectually stimulating environment, although they weren’t what one would call ‘moneyed’. She remains fortunate to have the kind of upbringing she did, with her parents encouraging her to pursue ballet and drama, and pushing her to read The New Yorker.

Her mother, even with their limited means, taught young Sarah never to underestimate the importance of dressing up to the occasion, a quality she is still thankful for.

SJP was a student at Cincinnati’s School for Creative and Performing Arts, School of American Ballet in New York, and later went on to attend high school in New Jersey and Los Angeles.

Stepping onto the Big Stage

Sarah Jessica Parker’s first Broadway appearance came in Annie, a story about an orphan set in the Depression era. She began with a smaller part, and went on to grab the lead role in 1979.

Her first TV role was in the sitcom Square Pegs in 1982 as an awkward teenager. The show didn’t last long, but young SJP had definitely “arrived”.

Films followed almost immediately, with Footloose in 1984, along with Girls Just Wanna Have Fun, in which she starred alongside Helen Hunt.

Her most memorable movie in 1986 as a young artist was Disney’s Flight of the Navigator, a cool sci-fi film.

The transition from a gawky teenager to a gorgeous gal was smooth, as was evident in her next release, L.A. Story in 1991, which was a romantic comedy.

Her next movie Honeymoon in Vegas saw her get a starring role opposite Nicolas Cage. This movie released in 1992, and SJP came into the limelight.

Her 1993 movie Hocus Pocus was a minor box office success, but was slammed by the critics. In the same year, she acted opposite Bruce Willis in Striking Distance, where she played a police diver.

In 1994 came Ed Wood, director Tim Burton’s critically acclaimed movie in which she was paired opposite Johnny Depp as his girlfriend.

She played the lead role in 1995′s Miami Rhapsody with Antonio Banderas and Mia Farrow, which received mixed reviews. Her next movie outing was that of the feisty mistress in The First Wives Club, released in the year 1996. In 1997, SJP acted in the comedy ‘Til There Was You.

SJP has also had a flourishing stage career with her plays Sylvia, How to Succeed in Business Without Really Trying, in which she acted with her husband Matthew Broderick, and Once Upon a Mattress.

Her recent movies include The Family Stone (2005), for which she earned a Golden Globe nomination for Best Actress – Comedy. Another romantic comedy, Failure to Launch with Matthew McConaughey released in 2006. In 2008, she then produced and starred in the indie film, Spinning Into Butter.

She was last seen in 2011, on the big screen in the movie I Don’t Know How She Does It.

Enter Ms. Carrie Bradshaw

To call the HBO series Sex and the City (SATC) as the highlight of SJP’s career would be the understatement of the year. SATC is more or less the reason behind SJP’s phenomenal popularity, and vice versa, in all fairness. So here’s how it all began – the show’s creator, Darren Star thought she fit the bill, sent her the script, she was initially hesitant, but came around to star in it, and later went on to become its producer as well. While the world saw her prancing around in pretty dresses and sky-high heels, SJP worked 90 hours a week, six months a year for each of the six seasons.

The first episode of SATC aired on June 6, 1998, with the opening credits showing SJP in the memorable pink tutu, walking on the streets of New York. Six brilliant seasons later, SJP was a sartorial goddess and the lone princess who managed to find her happy ending. She received five Emmy nominations for playing Carrie, before finally winning in 2004, along with winning four Golden Globe awards.

Two SATC movies followed in 2008 and 2010, which earned moderate praise and garnered decent earnings, mostly thanks to the huge number of loyalists.

Just SJP

Sarah Jessica Parker was in a relationship with Firstborn fellow actor Robert Downey, Jr. from 1984. They broke up in 1991, owing to his long-term drug abuse.

She married actor Matthew Broderick on May 19, 1997 at a synagogue in Manhattan. She gave birth to their son, James Wilkie Broderick on October 28, 2002. The couple’s twin daughters, Marion Loretta Elwell and Tabitha Hodge were born through surrogacy on June 22, 2009.

She endorsed Garnier Nutrisse hair color and Gap. SJP also has a fragrance line to her credit.

Parker is UNICEF’s Representative for the Performing Arts, and is a member of Hollywood Women’s Political Committee.

Today, Sarah Jessica Parker is the epitome of savvy urban women, juggling motherhood and her professional commitments. Considering her celebrity status, she is as normal/abnormal as they come, refusing to surgically address her flaws and pander to the typical filmstar excesses. If that’s not a welcome change, what is?


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Humor (Limerick)

Look for humor at all times,
Often it’s very sublime.
Too subtle to miss,
It’s often just this;
So great it’s almost a crime.

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Biography of Scarlett Johansson

Considered to be one of the sexiest actors in Tinseltown, Johansson’s features are equated with that of a Goddess. Johansson has certainly surpassed her image of a sensual actress and is on the ladder to become one of the respected and big stars in Hollywood. Johansson was acknowledged with the 2,470th star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame in front of Madame Tussauds in Hollywood. She is an ardent fan of Woody Allen and has worked with him in his productions.

Johansson prefers evading the eyes of the paparazzi, especially guarding her private life from the press. Johansson avoids any sort of public invasion in her private life by keeping away from social networking sites, especially Twitter.

This Hollywood beauty is in complete awe of the city she was born in; talking of New York she says, “The city is very kind to me, It wraps its big, warm arms around me and keeps me safe. I feel good here.”

Life and Times of ‘ScarJo’

Getting an early start to her career, she debuted as a Hollywood actor when she was just 10. Johansson has often portrayed mature roles in the films, thus, earning herself a tag of being mature before her age.

Life Sketch

Name:

Scarlett Ingrid Johansson

Born on:

22nd November 1984

Place:

New York City, USA

Daughter of:

Karsten Johansson and Melanie Sloan

Siblings:

Vanessa, Adrian, Hunter Johansson and Fenan

Trademark:

Buxom figure, Full lips

Education:

Lee Strasberg Institute

Graduation:

Professional Children’s School in Manhattan

Stage Debut:

In 1993, with Playwrights Horizon Theater’s production “Sophistry”

Hollywood Debut:

In 1994, in Rob Reiner’s “North”

Recent Work:

The Avengers; released May 4, 2012

Weakness:

Cheese

Nickname:

ScarJo

Terrified of:

Birds and Insects, especially Cockroaches

Interests:

Tap Dancing

Filmography

Movie Year As
North 1994 Laura Nelson
Just Cause 1995 Kate
Manny & Lo 1996 Amanda
If Lucy Fell 1996 Emily
Home Alone 3 1997 Molly
The Horse Whisperer 1998 Grace MacLean
The Man Who Wasn’t There 2001 Birdy Abundas
An American Rhapsody 2001 Suzanne
Ghost World 2001 Becky
A Good Woman 2001 Meg Windermere
Eight Legged Freaks 2002 Ashley
Girl With a Pearl Earring 2003 Griet
Lost in Translation 2003 Charlotte
In Good Company 2004 Alex Foreman
A Love Song For Bobby Long 2004 Pursy Will
The SpongeBob Square Pants Movie 2004 Mindy the Mermaid
The Perfect Score 2004 Francesca
Match Point 2005 Nola Rice
The Island 2005 Sarah Jordan
The Prestige 2006 Olivia Wenscombe
The Black Dahlia 2006 Kay Lake
Scoop 2006 Sondra Pransky
The Nanny Diaries 2007 Annie Braddock
The Other Boleyn Girl 2008 Mary Boleyn
The Spirit 2008 Silken Floss
Vicky Cristina Barcelona 2008 Cristina
He’s Just Not That Into You 2009 Anna
Iron Man 2 2010 Natalie Rushman/Black Widow
The Whale 2011 an Executive Producer
We Bought a Zoo 2011 Kelly Foster
The Avengers 2012 Black Widow

In the Limelight

Johansson is demi-Danish, demi-Jew as she is the descendant of a Danish father and an Ashkenazi Jewish mother. Thanks to her movie-buff mother who accompanied her to the auditions, Johansson entered the industry rather young. She got her first break in Rob Reiner’s production ‘North’, which was sadly a major disaster. However, her talent got critical praise a couple of years later for her role in If Lucy Fell and Manny & Lo. Johansson earned herself name and recognition for her role in Robert Redford’s The Horse Whisperer. She was accredited for being able to perform with a talent that contradicted her age.

The Making of a Star …

Johansson’s status as a star rose with her performance in Lost in Translation where she played the role of Charlotte, an abandoned young wife. She won the BAFTA award for her role in the film. Besides, she also won a nomination for the Golden Globe award and was also nominated by the Broadcast Film Critics Association and the Chicago Film Critics Association.

Apart from her roles in Hollywood, Johansson has also made her presence felt in Broadway, playing the role of Catherine Carbone in Arthur Miller’s, A View from the Bridge, earning herself a Tony Award for Best Performance in a Play.

Love, Life and Johansson

Preferring to keep her personal life under wraps, Johansson despises the idea of sharing her personal matters on social networking sites. Here’s what she has to say on social networking, “I don’t have a Facebook or a Twitter account …That, to me, is a very strange phenomenon. I can’t think of anything I’d rather do less than have to continuously share details of my everyday life … But I’d rather that people had less access to my personal life. If I could keep it that way, I’d be a happy lady.”

Johansson’s relation to Canadian actor, Ryan Reynolds resulted in marriage which was short-lived. Johansson filed for divorce in 2010. Soon after that, she was linked to Sean Penn; they, however, split in May 2011. She was previously linked to Jared Leto, Josh Hartnett, and Patrick Wilson. Being a huge fan of Woody Allen, there is no doubt that she is regarded as a muse for Allen himself. Johansson claims to have a liking for the bad boys and has a connection to older men.

Musical Inclination

Johansson sang ‘Summertime‘ for Unexpected Dreams – Songs From the Stars, in 2006. She performed for the Coachella Reunion in Indio in 2007. Johansson was the leading lady in Justin Timberlake’s video ‘What Goes Around… Comes Around‘ in 2007. Johansson recorded an album titled ‘Anywhere I Lay My Head‘ consisting of an original track and 10 cover versions of Tom Waits’ songs. Johansson along with singer Pete Yorn recorded an album titled ‘Break Up‘ in 2009. She sang the track ‘Bullet‘ for the album ‘Terrible Thrills Vol. 1‘ in 2010. She also sang the track ‘One Whole Hour‘ for the documentary Wretches & Jabberers in 2011.

Politically Speaking …

Johansson campaigned for John Kerry in the 2004 Presidential elections and for Barack Obama in 2008. Johansson supports Barack Obama and hosted a fashion launch whose proceeds go into the President’s reelection campaign. Johansson publicly supports Scott Stringer’s 2013 run for the New York City mayor.

Ambassador

Johansson has been the ambassador for Oxfam International, an aid and development agency, ever since 2005.

Johansson is the face of Spanish clothing brand Mango since 2009. She is the face of Dolce & Gabbana, L’Oréal, Louis Vuitton, Calvin Klein.

In 2009, Johansson became the first celebrity to be the ambassador of Moet & Chandon Champagne.

Seeing the way Scarlett Johansson has created a niche for herself in an industry which depends solely on talent, it is needless to say that the young starlet is on the right path to success.


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California on the Precipice, Facing $16 Billion Deficit

If you think the United States has it bad from the perspective of massive debt and unsustainable and crippling budget deficits (and, for some reason, some people don’t think this), then California is probably going to serve as a study in what not to do in running a state. The overzealous lawmakers in that state have pushed their greedy snouts into so many projects and regulations that doing business in California is nearly impossible. But what’s even worse is the amount of taxes the state must raise to support all of this irresponsible and ill-advised spending.

The state currently has a budget deficit that is projected to grow to $ 16 billion this year, something that will create large cuts to schools and public safety if voters do not approve a tax increase in a state that already has taxes that are too high by any reasonable measure. Things in California have gotten so bad, in fact, that the state has taken to taxing those who no longer reside in California, and have seized the so-called taxes via agreements with banking behemoths who comply by sending “taxpayer” money to the state without notifying the account holders.

It’s the latest in a series of totalitarian “big brother” moves by a state that claims to have everyone’s best interests in mind but, in reality, is governing itself into an abyss. Of the necessary tax increases and spending cuts, Governor Brown notes, “This means we will have to go much farther and make cuts far greater than I asked for at the beginning of the year. But we can’t fill this hole with cuts alone without doing severe damage to our schools. That’s why I’m bypassing the gridlock and asking you, the people of California, to approve a plan that avoids cuts to schools and public safety.” In other words – “we’ve spent your money terribly over the past several decades…and now we need more.”


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Ways to Save Money on Your Pet

The last time you were at the pet store, did you end up spending a small fortune on your furry friend? You probably went there for one or two small items, but ended up grabbing all those fun-looking, fuzzy toys on your way out, right? Well, never fear. There are plenty of ways that you can cut back on spending on your cat or dog, and the tips are a lot easier than you might think.

Toys
Cats and dogs are often like children; you buy them an expensive toy and they end up playing with the box it came in. If this is the case with your pet, go ahead and just buy him the box – metaphorically, of course. If you pay attention to your pet at play, though, you will find what makes him or her happy and what they just ignore. Some dogs, for example, really love squeaky toys but ignore ropes for tugging. Some cats love playing with ribbons but don’t like the laser lights. If your cat or dog likes a specific kind of toy, buy them a few of those but don’t buy more until they run out. If your pet likes to play with things that aren’t toys, like ribbons or socks, keep some of those handy and don’t buy toys at all.

Medication
You can save a bundle on medication for your pet by buying in bulk online. Of course, you should always see your vet before giving any medication to your furry friend, but once you get the prescription, there are a bunch of online suppliers where you can get your pet’s medication for cheap if you buy a big supply of them at a time.

Food and Treats
Food and treats for your cat or dog can be very expensive, and you usually don’t want to compromise on quality in order to save a few bucks. Lower quality pet food can be made with lots of fillers that aren’t very good for your pet’s health. Luckily, though, there are some great bargain brands. Compare the ingredient lists to price and find what works best for you and your wallet. Also, dry food is almost always cheaper – and healthier. Wet food doesn’t help your pet’s digestive tract at all, so you may want to switch to dry food if you can. There is also the option of making your pet’s food yourself. This is the healthiest way to feed your pet, after you do a little research about what is good for them to eat and what is not. However, even though this is cheaper, it can be very time-consuming.

Bedding
Bedding is a necessity, but that doesn’t mean you have to buy it from a pet store. Bedding from your local pet store can cost a lot of money, especially when you can go to your local department store and get blankets and pillows for much less. Dogs, especially, love fleece blankets, and you can always get some fleece and make your own. Similarly, you can get foam padding and make pads for crates and carriers without spending much at all.

Grooming
Grooming is a huge expense when it comes to your pet. If you feel comfortable trimming your own pet’s fur, you can absolutely do that at home. If not, there are ways to save. People usually have their pets groomed in the spring and fall, when shedding becomes intense. If you brush your pet every day, this will cut down on the number of times you have to bring him or her to the groomer.


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Conservatives Encouraging School Bullying by Suggesting that What You Do in High School Doesn’t Matter Later On

The first thought you may have had when you heard that Mitt Romney could not recall having taken part in the forcible removal of hair from a fellow student’s head because he decided what a fellow student could and could not look like may have been thus: Mitt Romney enforced his view of what was acceptable on so many fellow students that none stick out in his memory. The army of conservative pundits and spokespersons have another take: it happened 50 years ago, so get over it!

The one thing that you will hear the most often when conservatives hit the airwaves to discuss Mitt Romney’s prep school bullying is that it happened 50 years ago. In other words, it doesn’t matter now. CNN Starting Point with Soledad O’Brien featured the Lt. Governor of Massachusetts during Romney’s reign suggesting that since it happened 50 years ago, Romney doesn’t need to say anything more about the bullying than he’s already done. You know, his pathetic “if I did something” apology.

To which the young male conservative pundit constantly mouthing the most incredibly inane and partisan statements you will hear on CNN all day-I don’t know this guy’s name and, frankly, am not interested in wasting my time trying to find out his name, but he’s got the kind of hair that I’m sure would have had Mitt Romney running with scissors back in the day when such a look would have tagged him among Romney types as “queer”-suggesting that Mitt Romney should not have said anything at all. It happened 50 years ago so, in this idiot’s mind, it has no bearing on today’s world.

Except.

Except that when a young Mitt Romney type today is conditioned by such a typically short-sighted conservative approach to reality the only possible outcome can be something along these lines: “Get it over, Nancy, in 50 years my cutting your hair or kicking you in the stomach or beating you with a sock full of nickels won’t matter.”

Does the fact that Mitt Romney used to be a bully (and still is if you go by the fact that he won the GOP nomination by spending tens of millions of dollars beating up on his opponents) matter to those whom the rich idiot beat up half a century agao? Maybe. Maybe not. Does the fact that the high school bullies of today are being treated to a constant refrain of “what you do in high school won’t matter when you become an adult” matter?

Why don’t you ask the victims of those bullies?


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Why You Should Stop Spending Money and Start Winning

Before my current life as a professional contest winner and addict, I was a shopping addict. I was addicted to the deals and steals and often purchased things only to later experience buyer’s remorse. In the corner of my studio apartment shamefully sits 48 cans of tuna purchased during a sale. Now I enter contests to reduce my shopping bills, and win gift cards so I can still splurge from time to time.

When I first started telling people about contests, the first thing that came to their minds were free cars, Publisher’s Clearinghouse, and winning a lifetime supply of something silly. The reality is that companies are constantly giving away useful, everyday products because companies make everyday, useful products.

For the shopaholics, and even savvy recessionista, it’s easy to rack up debt when you’re buying things that you don’t need. You might get lucky and win that grand prize, but most of the time the prizes will be of lesser value. Prizes add up, even if it’s just a single granola bar at a time. Something else that adds up, grocery bills.

According to the Consumer Expenditure Survey (U.S. Dept. of Labor, U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, 2010), the average household spends $ 6,372 per year on food. In one month, I won 22 bags of chips, 2 bags of beef jerky, 8 organic pears, 1 bag of loose tea, 2 smoothie mixes, a gallon of gourmet popcorn, peanut butter, and a granola bar all delivered to my door to free. The next month I won 52 coupons for free coffee, hotdogs, donuts, soda, and pastries. Although seemingly small, all these prizes helped reduce my grocery bill and save money for more important things.

So even if you never win that trip to Hawaii or get that oversized check, entering and winning contests will definitely help you financially in this tough economy. Trust me, since I’ve started winning, I haven’t paid for shampoo, shoes, and even iPads.


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Answers Are in the Desert

Answers in the Desert

A Family of Quails

searching for seeds in my backyard

They make every morning bright

Always on Time

Yet they don’t have clocks and no place to be

So Precious

I want to hold on to them.

So I Spread more Seeds.

Hummingbirds however visit and leave

come and go As they please

Jewels of my desert

So Delicate

They share the feeder with the bats

So Thirsty

I want to see more of them

So I Plant More Bright Flowers.

There Are More lessons to be learned

In my desert as I begin to walk

Sand and small rocks are all over sudden in my shoes

So Uncomfortable

I continue walking despite this

So Painful

Finally I realize I am allowed to be comfortably.

So I Got Rid of the Stuff.

Then I sit and rest on a rock

The blazing heat on my shoulder

I need water.

So Refreshing

Creatures can’t survive without water.

So Depending

I need more.
So I Drink

There is a roadrunner on my path.

Looks like he just had lunch

His long neck is quite fascinating.

So Ugly

I hope that his meal wasn’t my horny toad.

So Uneasy

Well, creatures need nourishment to survive

So They Eat.

I am starting to pay more attention to my surroundings.

And I see him

He is trying to survive himself.

So creepy
His existence consist out of one long muscle and one slithering tongue

So enchanting

The pattern of the snake’s and his movements are so fascinating.
I Approach him Carefully.

My children’s laughter warms my heart.

They are playing in the backyard

Chasing Lizards around the house

So fast

Now they caught one.

So bumpy

They want to catch him again tomorrow

So they Let Him Go.


My husband arrives with a glove in the desert?

Anxiously he is calling the children.

A huge creature is resting on the palm of his hand.

So Hairy

The eight legged creature is moving his front legs

So Cautious

We cage the tarantula for a day or two
Holding on to this odd Beauty.

The Desert seems so empty, hopeless and dead.

But I discover more and more

that it is full of life

So Busy

Anthill, Cacti and tiny desert flowers decorating the side

So Amazing
I want to stay and learn more

So I Stay and Discover.

No Stone is left unturned

Discoveries are to be made

Caution is required as danger lurks under those rocks.

So Frightening

A shiny black scorpion with a long stinger has sought shelter

So Scary

I cover it back up. I don’t want to distinguish life.
So I Protect.

Nighttime arrives

And the sun is setting.

The best sunsets are in the desert.

So beautiful

As I long for a new day the stars light up the skies

So magnificent

In awe I watch that spectacle and

I Vow that I Stay in the desert.

As I turn out the light

And say my evening prayer

To the sound of coyotes howling outside of my home

So spooky

I receive a reminder

So thankfully

There is a desert in everyone’s life (at some point).

May you not only prevail but also find joy, peace, encouragement and answers in yours.

( This story/poem was written after I visited my daughter’s creative writing class. The teacher talked about descriptive language and I tried by exaggerating inserting as many adjective as possible. I was actually quite proud of this end product detailing my experiences of living in the Arizona desert)


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